Re-aligning & Finding Your Identity

23 Aug Re-aligning & Finding Your Identity

When you’re working so hard towards growing your business, trying to raise a family, maintain a home & be a great wife it’s easy to lose your identity and become absorbed in all of the roles you play.

It’s impossible to be the best in every element of your life when you’re wearing so many hats and not prioritising time for yourself.

You can’t pour from an empty cup and it’s so easy to try and run on empty as a business owner.

In order to be the best version of yourself in all of your roles, it’s important to take some time to yourself and sit back, thinking about the direction that you’re moving in, what you want to achieve, either as a business owner, mother, wife or any other role.

It requires some planning but that doesn’t mean being rigid or strict. It’s little things like meal planning for the week and having the hubby do the groceries (you may have to write the list) and delegating tasks within your business to people – yes, even if you’re doing it solo.

You can hire a bookkeeper for 1 hour a week so that’s one thing off your plate (and you probably hate doing it anyway) They will work faster than you, and they enjoy it so it may cost you $50 but it saves you a few hours, it saves you from stress and allows you to spend that time on something else. Something more important.

By knowing the direction that you want things to move in, you know what needs to be prioritised in your life, enabling you to manage your time better.

I’m going to share a video with you that I found incredibly helpful (and hard-hitting) when I was feeling overwhelmed and lost.

It will hopefully help you to identify where you need balance and give you some clarity on how to manage your time better.
Which will ultimately allow you to find time for you, and your personal health and well-being, whether it means taking 15 minutes out a day to meditate or 20 minutes to journal and get all of the junk out of your head so you can start your day fresh and with a clear thought pattern.

Maybe it’s finding an hour in your busy week to get a massage – that you so desperately need and deserve.

Fill your own cup. Show yourself some love and realign yourself with your true self, and connect with the roles you play so you can perform more effectively and enjoy the life you have created.

Make sure you watch the video!